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The 5 Best and Worst Things About Being Pregnant

Now that I’ve been pregnant for over 38 weeks, I’ve had plenty of time to reflect on my experience. In a lot of ways, pregnancy was nothing like I expected it to be. In some ways, it was harder and in some ways, it was easier. Everyone’s pregnancies are different and each woman will have a different experience being pregnant with each child, so there is no way to completely generalize the good and bad of pregnancy. However, based on my experience in the last 38 weeks, here’s what I personally enjoyed the most and the least.

The 5 Best Things About Being Pregnant

  1. Stronger Connections with Fellow Parents/Parents to Be.  I think my favorite thing about being pregnant is how many people I’ve gotten to know better that I may not have if I weren’t with child. Strangers come up to me and tell me stories about their children (such as when one man’s child hugged an obese man’s protruding stomach and looked up at him and said ‘Is there a baby in there!?’), I got a glimpse into my dermatologist’s life when he spoke fondly about how he is surrounded by women with a wife, two daughters and female pets, one of the senior VPs at my company sincerely told me that parenthood is the best thing that has ever happened to him, and I’ve had conversations with countless other people who I may not have normally been able to make an easy connection with. I’ve also created stronger bonds with friends and family who are are parents and are excited to share their pregnancy experiences, birth stories and parenting advice with me (which I may not always agree with but I appreciate hearing it). It’s been heartwarming to learn so much about other people’s lives simply based on the fact that I’m entering this club called “parenthood.”
  2. Reading the Weekly Pregnancy Update Emails.  Every single Friday I turn another week “more pregnant” and as a reward, I get two emails in my inbox which  read aloud to Mike. The emails provide facts about how my baby is progressing, how I should/may be feeling at this point and tips on things to do or think about in the coming weeks. I get one from Baby Center, which is more to the point and one from The Pregnant Chicken, which is witty and always makes us laugh. In the beginning the updates were pretty incredible (your baby grew lungs! your baby opened her eyes!) and now they are less astounding (your baby put on some fat) but I still look forward to reading them every week.

    I love the Pregnant Chicken!
    I love the Pregnant Chicken!
  3. Ice Cream. I picked up this lovely habit around the 5 month mark and I’ve pretty much scooped myself a bowl of ice cream about 5 nights a week on average since then. Ice cream has always been my favorite dessert but when not pregnant I would never allow myself to indulge this often. Probably contributed to a few pounds of my weight gain, but I could care less!
  4. Bradley Method Birth Classes. Mike and I spent 7 Sunday afternoons (we missed one class for our Baby Moon) in a three hour birthing class and I actually really, really enjoyed it. Not only did I find it fascinating, it was great to meet and bond with other couples in the same situation as us. The best part was the way it seemed to even make my bond with Mike even stronger and I am genuinely looking forward to the day I give birth and am not scared.

    Mike attempting to push a ping pong ball through a balloon to simulate childbirth during our last Bradley Class
    Mike attempting to push a ping pong ball through a balloon to simulate childbirth during our last Bradley Class
  5. Experiencing the Human Body Perform a Miracle (and Baby Kicks!). Sometimes I’m simply in awe of how my body has just known what to do to create a human life. It’s truly incredible that Siena was once the size of a poppy seed and now she’s a full size baby. Although all the information on pregnancy is overwhelming at times, there really isn’t much to creating a baby. The human body is pretty amazing (and it’s almost as incredible that I’ll be able to provide her with her most perfect food from my breasts as well). I definitely don’t take it for granted all that my body is able to do. And seriously, those kicks are amazing. I still get excited every time I feel her inside me – this is the definitely the thing I’ll miss most about being pregnant.

The 5 Worst Things About Being Pregnant

  1. Morning sickness. This is BY FAR the worst part of pregnancy. I kept expecting the final few weeks of pregnancy to be the worst but the non-stop 24/7 nausea was miserable. I only actually threw up once, but basically felt like I had a constant hangover from week 6 to week 13 or so. I would even wake up in the middle of the night nauseous!
  2. Birth Group Forums. I’ve had a love/hate relationship with the pregnancy forums (I’m in a “September 2015” birth group) but I’ve come to realize that I don’t have much in common with the women who actually do post in them. Not to mention, some women are really mean to each other on there! However, I can’t help but read them from time to time.
  3. Limitations on Workouts & No Real Racing. Although I really feel lucky to have been able to work out so much during my pregnancy (even through the nasty morning sickness!), there are definitely limitations on what I can do. I’m not running anymore and when I was running I wasn’t able to push myself to the limits that I previously did. Although I definitely think it’s all worth it and I’m really learning to appreciate restorative workouts like yoga, I do miss a good, adrenaline pumping workout and I love racing hard!

    In my happy place!
    In my happy place!
  4. No Alcohol.  I don’t consider myself a big drinker (anymore) but I do love a nice buzz from a couple beers on a Friday night after work, or the girl talk that comes from sharing a bottle of wine with a girlfriend. I also just genuinely enjoy the taste of a good craft beer, and I miss it immensely!

    Mmmm beer.
    Mmmm beer.
  5. Comments About Belly Size. I am TOTALLY someone who has commented on friends (but never a stranger’s) belly size in the past, saying things like “wow you’ve gotten so big” but I’ve learned my lesson. Belly size is a sensitive topic and although the majority of feedback I’ve received is that my belly is small, I still don’t love to hear it. Every woman wants to feel like their belly is tracking normally, yet I’m pretty sure not a single woman actually thinks their belly size is normal. I know women who are really sensitive about how big they look (never ask a woman if she’s having twins, and definitely don’t ask her if she’s sure when she says no), yet it seems to be the one thing that people can’t handle not commenting on.
    It took me a while to show - and it means nothing!
    It took me a while to show – and it means nothing!

    Overall, I would say I’ve had a very enjoyable pregnancy. There are some low moments and times when I feel like my body is not my own, but no matter what, I wouldn’t trade this experience for anything. I am so excited to meet Siena and every sacrifice and moment of discomfort will be worth it. I haven’t even met her yet and I know it’s true. Now we just have to wait and see when we finally get to meet!

If you’ve been pregnant, what was your favorite and least favorite part? If you’ve never been pregnant, which part scares you the most!? 

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September 13, 2015 By fitnessfatale 12 Comments

Filed Under: Pregnancy, Uncategorized Tagged With: the best part of being pregnant, the worst part of being pregnant, working out while pregnant

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  1. Kate

    September 14, 2015 at 10:34 am

    Hi! I’m a longtime reader, infrequent commenter, but just wanted to THANK YOU for all your insightful, well-written posts — on pregnancy, and on running and triathlon and strength! I hope you’ll keep writing. You’ve got a great blog here. Best wishes for the birth. :):)

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    • FitnessFatale

      September 14, 2015 at 3:38 pm

      Thanks for the comment and for reading Kate!!! I’m so glad you reached out 🙂 I always love to hear from people who read but don’t comment. This comment made my day! 🙂

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  2. Dietitian Jess

    September 14, 2015 at 11:31 am

    I’m not a mother and I don’t like when people give unsolicited parenting advice- unless you are an expert in the field of the topic then you should keep your mouth shut, maybe that sounds harsh but I feel like everyone does what works for them and figuring it out on your own is the best part. I know whenever I have a baby in the next couple years I will definitely miss craft beer as well- but Siena should be here in time for you to enjoy some pumpkin beer!

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    • FitnessFatale

      September 14, 2015 at 3:37 pm

      Haha i hear you!!!

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  3. Ashley @ Running Bun

    September 14, 2015 at 3:30 pm

    Amen sister.

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  4. Kelly

    September 14, 2015 at 4:08 pm

    I agree completely! Love the ice cream, Love feeling the baby kick, Love the absolute miracle of life! But I really really miss running and hot yoga and red wine and not having to pee every 5 minutes. 🙂

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  5. Kristen @ Glitter and Dust

    September 14, 2015 at 4:45 pm

    This is great! It really does seem like you have had a great attitude throughout your pregnancy. Well done, mama!

    Pregnancy likes: Connecting with others and making new relations with people now that we have more in common. The mom club is no joke. When I am out and about, women talk to me everywhere I go. I am also in awe of our body’s ability to create a human being. It’s a miracle!

    Pregnancy dislikes: Putting my body on loan for almost a year and not having control over it like I normally would. General discomfort and not being able to sleep well (I sleep better post-partum). Giving up training, racing, and intensity! And wine.

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    • FitnessFatale

      September 14, 2015 at 5:27 pm

      I’m glad the sleep is better quality now- although probably interrupted at least it’s peaceful!! As for training, I’m looking forward to seeing what you have up your sleeve in 2016!

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  6. Sheena @ Paws and Pavement

    September 14, 2015 at 7:27 pm

    I’ve never been pregnant and the part that scares me is the ability to run and workout however I want. There are many women with blogs that are pregnant and I was (wrongly) surprised to read how all of them had to slow down or stop their workouts. Since I’ve never been pregnant, of course I don’t understand fully that your body is being used for a much more important reason than running. I guess that just comes with pregnancy. I’m so glad to read about others experiences so I can be better prepared when my time comes.

    Thanks!

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  7. Becca

    September 14, 2015 at 8:54 pm

    Congratulations and have an amazing birth! I am trying to not offer unsolicited advice (all of us mom’s do that!). BUT, my only thing to say is don’t give up on breastfeeding (not that I think you will). It is the one thing I miss the most about having babies. It is really hard the first 4 days and then it is a piece of cake!

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  8. PantsuitsMom

    September 14, 2015 at 9:57 pm

    Hi! I’m new to your blog and love it! Your enthusiasm for running and racing is contagious! I hear ya about pregnancy – with my son, eating and sleeping were the best but, not having my body and not running (and having to stop marathon training) were tough! Not too much longer to go!! Best of luck!

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  9. Sara

    September 15, 2015 at 5:56 am

    It’s great you’ve been able to enjoy most of your pregnancy. Overall, I really didn’t mind being pregnant. I didn’t enjoy the first trimester because I was sick and gained the most weight during that time. But I loved being a part of the pregnant/mom club, and all the attention & love I received.

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