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Catching Up With a Virtual Coffee Date

work from home mom

Let’s catch up. The dust has settled (kind of) on my transition from the corporate world to full-time mom with a part-time job. Marathon training is in full swing. Summer is over (wahh!) and the days are much shorter than our last coffee date.

Right now I’m sipping a pretty sad cup of coffee flavored with just a bit of unsweetened almond milk. I just started my one-week sugar detox group my beloved coffee creamer is not allowed (honey, in moderation is, but I don’t have any right now – grocery shopping happening later!). I normally like to live on the principle of “everything in moderation” but it’s always interesting and fun to challenge myself to short bouts of extreme to reset and create awareness of the habits I’ve built. Since I’ve been home, I’ve been generously pouring myself more coffee than normal and using more sweetened coffee creamer than usual as well. I’ve also developed a habit of looking for my favorite gelato on sale at Target and justifying buying two pints every time it is.

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I’ve been home with Siena over a month now. Where does time go!? We’re starting to settle into a routine and a groove, but each day is different. The first week or so I was a bit overwhelmed with everything I had on my to-do list and was pretty scatter brained, but things have gotten better. Like any new job, it takes some time to get into a routine and figure it all out. It has been nice to be in pretty much complete control of when I work (actually, Siena has control over a lot of that as well so I can’t say it’s all me!). I work pretty much every day, including the weekends, and most evenings as well. I work just a few hours during the day and the amount of time varies depending on whether or not I decide to get up early to get in my workout or if I do it during her nap. I try not to work at all while Siena is awake besides quickly checking in with my challenge groups or posting to social media. Siena’s two naps in total tend to add up to anywhere from 3-4.5 hours so the range of time I have to get things done varies. Mike’s mom comes once a week on Tuesdays to watch Siena between her two naps so that gives me nearly a full day to get things done, though I always get less done than I think I will. Overall, I’m really loving the new role(s) and every day I’m thankful to have this opportunity to spend so much time with Siena.

Backyard pool time
Backyard pool time

Every day Siena and I get out of the house at a least once. We are fortunate to have many libraries near us with free activities for infants and toddlers, so there is something to do every day. I’m also lucky to have several friends who either work part time or stay home, so Siena has a lot of friends to meet up with. While it’s still warm, I try to take Siena to the beach at least once a week. She really loves the ocean! We also head to local playgrounds, including one we can easily walk to, Target, Trader Joe’s and go for runs or walks along the coast using the BOB. I just signed her up for gymnastics class on Wednesdays with her friend Emi – she loves to climb so this is the perfect place for her (the membership also includes free open gym four days a week!).

Siena and Charlie at the Solana Beach library
Siena and Charlie at the Solana Beach library
With Kelley, one of the leaders in my Beachbody team, and our kids during a meet up last week
With Kelley, one of the leaders in my Beachbody team, and our kids during a meet up last week

As for my life outside of Siena, I’m working on it! I was invited to a moms night out by a new friend and really enjoyed the time away. When I worked full time I was hesitant to do much without Siena on nights and weekends but now I welcome the break! Mike and I got away this past weekend to attend a wedding which was held in Mission Bay, the same area that our wedding was held three years ago. We decided to make it a little mini-anniversary getaway and stayed at the waterfront hotel and spent some additional time together before and after the wedding. Nana and Boo watched Siena for her second ever night way from both of us.

Coffee with a view during our anniversary overnight trip
Coffee with a view during our anniversary overnight trip

Another fun development is that I am currently planning a trip to see Asia during her travels! Her parents have booked their trip to see her in Costa Rica over Christmas, so I am going to try to meet her there in early January. Mike and I are still working on logistics, but I’d probably only go for about five days. Of course Zika is in the back of my mind a little (the affordable flight price definitely reflects the fears of others!) but we are probably going to head to the mountains where mosquitos are less prevalent. And of course we will be taking the recommended time away from baby making after I return. Number two will have to wait a bit. I can’t wait to see my best friend and catch up on life! She is doing so well (read her blog to catch up with her!) and I’m so happy that she made this leap.

As for marathoning, the desire to BQ is back. I know I’m not in shape to do it at New York but I have my sights set on next Spring for another attempt. I’ve wanted to run the Mountains to Beach marathon for a few years now and I’m thinking 2017 will be the perfect opportunity to do it (even though if I wait until Fall of 2017 I will get 5 more minutes since I will be 35 on race day of 2019). I’ve been considering seeking coaching but more on that later.  marathon training and 21 day fix

I’m also having a major itch to race lately! There just really isn’t a good opportunity for me to do so before New York, so there will be no tune up race for me. I had considered running the Long Beach Half next weekend but honestly the logistics are too much. I need my sleep too much. And I also don’t want to spend any time tapering and recovering. I tried searching for a convenient 5k but even that didn’t work out. I usually race every 1-2 months and the itch is real!

In other news, I have not had as much time to listen to podcasts lately but I was really sad to hear that Running on Om had it’s last show! Julia has other interests that she is going to pursue. I was sad to hear it but totally understand. Podcasts are a lot of work without a lot of reward.

For my Big Brother fans (spoiler alert), I was pretty shocked but the winner this year (I thought Paul deserved to win) but thrilled that it was a woman. It was the first time EVER in Big Brother history (18 seasons) that a female has won over a male in the final 2. I hope that the same precedent can be set by Hilary in November (anyone else think that the debate was just hard to watch!?).

Enough politics. That’s what is happening with me.

What’s new with you? Have you ever run Mountains to Beach? Have you been to Arenal in Costa Rica and do you have any recommendations for me? Would you to go Central/South America despite Zika?

 

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September 27, 2016 By fitnessfatale 14 Comments

Filed Under: Running, Uncategorized Tagged With: Beachbody Coach, coffee date, new york marathon, stay at home mom

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  1. Vicky

    September 27, 2016 at 10:08 pm

    Love the update! Have you considered the surfing Madonna 5k or 10k? We’re doing the 5k

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    • FitnessFatale

      September 28, 2016 at 2:39 am

      I thought about that! But Mike’s out of town and obviously I can’t run with the stroller in the sand! My mom may come down that weekend so maybe it’ll be a last minute entry!

      Reply
  2. Beth

    September 27, 2016 at 10:38 pm

    Work from home mommin’ looks great on you!

    You should come run the Colorado Marathon next May, it’s great for BQs and it’s beautiful. Either way we have room for you guys if you ever want to come out to Colorado =)

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    • FitnessFatale

      September 28, 2016 at 2:38 am

      Thank you! I might take you up on that offer. Colorado is HIGH on my must-see list! I’ve never been there!

      Reply
  3. Kristen

    September 27, 2016 at 10:48 pm

    So glad your transitioning into your new routine and lifestyle as a WAHM. We have very similar schedules… working when the little one sleeps and taking advantage of evenings/weekends. Axel has really been fighting his afternoon naps lately, which I am worried about. I am not ready to drop down to one nap, but it takes him FOREVER to fall asleep. Are you having any issues like this with Siena?

    I’ve heard great things about the Mountains to Beach marathon. Heck, if I wasn’t going to do another Ironman next summer I would definitely come down and run it with you. It looks like a fast course and the elevation gains/losses are at the right times. I decided to skip out on Boston this year and wait until Axel is a little older and can understand the experience. Who knows – maybe one day we’ll be running it together!

    And yes, that debate. Yikes.

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    • FitnessFatale

      September 28, 2016 at 2:37 am

      No Siena very much needs her morning nap still! She goes down easily just about 2 hours after she wakes up. I can’t imagine her dropping it anytime soon so we’ll see!

      Which Ironman are you doing!? Can’t wait to follow along – hopefully a Kona slot!

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  4. Asia

    September 28, 2016 at 12:06 am

    YAY I AM SO EXCITED TO SEE YOU!! We are going to have such a great time together in Costa Rica. I miss you! It looks like things are going so well for you back home & that makes me happy. 🙂

    Reply
    • FitnessFatale

      September 28, 2016 at 2:36 am

      I really hope it works out! Hoping to book within the week.

      Reply
  5. Wendy

    September 28, 2016 at 12:33 am

    Yay! A visit with Asia! I’m excited for you. And I recently realized I aged into the next category for BQ which gives me a fair shot at actually doing it. I’ve heard great things about Mountains to Sea (and Ventura Marathon too)

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    • FitnessFatale

      September 28, 2016 at 2:36 am

      Yes for 5 more minutes!!! Woohoo! Mountains to Beach would be a great one for you to try at ! (or CIM if you’re ready!)

      Reply
  6. Kelli

    September 28, 2016 at 12:48 pm

    Looks like you’re adjusting well to your new life! I have never commented before but had to chime in on your Costa Rica requests! I went to Arenal with my family in 2010 and stayed at Kokoro (http://www.arenalkokoro.com/). It was AMAZING! It’s owned by two brothers who cook you an amazing breakfast every morning, you have a perfect view of the volcano, and you have spacious lodges to sleep in. The property also has a pool and a short hiking trail. The brothers were fantastic – so friendly and spent time getting to know us daily. In fact, we all became Facebook friends with them and they still message my mom to tell us to come back and visit 🙂

    In La Fortuna we went ziplining and hiked to a beautiful waterfall – both suggestions from the Kokoro owners. Costa Rica is my favorite place I’ve ever been. I did get eaten up my mosquitos, but I tend to get bit more than anyone else I know. I don’t recall the amount in Arenal over a more southern, coastal city, but definitely take precautions! My supervisor at work went in January when she was pregnant and they stayed in the mountains and had no issues. Good luck!! 🙂

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    • FitnessFatale

      September 28, 2016 at 3:58 pm

      This all sounds amazing and makes me even more excited to go! thanks for the suggestions!! I may email you with more questions later if that’s oK?

      Reply
  7. Sun

    September 28, 2016 at 8:04 pm

    Great update, Nicole! A trip to Costa Rica sounds absolutely fab – seems like a super exotic location and I’m sure you’ll have tons of fun. Plus, nothing beats a few days with a bestie 🙂

    I’m excited to hear you’re going to go for a BQ again – I think this time – whether it’s next spring or fall – you’ve got it!

    Reply
    • FitnessFatale

      September 29, 2016 at 9:57 pm

      Thanks Sun I hope so !

      Reply

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